The one mistake men make with women

 Having a girlfriend is what most guys crave for because it comes with some kind of nice feeling. Most guys struggle so much in order to win over a woman because of this. The question is, after so many struggles that have helped you get the woman you want, what normally happens that makes her leave you? It is in the hands of a guy to either let a woman waste his time or to ensure she loves you back truly.

Thinking that being nice to a woman and giving her all your time will make her love you more is the mentality that almost every guy holds on to, in their minds. Normally, in order to win over a woman who you desire to be with, you must do what the 99% percent of guys do not.

You must stand up from the crowd and be different. What you are required to realize is that, women never appreciate kindness. They instead, take you for granted the moment you start being nice to them. The reason why most ladies do not stick around you as the guy is because you are too nice to her. They want someone who will treat them poorly and who will not give them all the attention.

 Avoid this kind of mentality that giving your all to a woman will make them love you more. In most cases, it is bound to backfire at you, it never works. Instead, you will only end up having wasted your time and all those resources that you may be working towards as a guy.

What happens with most guys is that, whenever they get a woman, they start offering them their most. They start minimizing their own time because they want to spend most of their daytime with the woman. Women works on less, like if you give them less of your attention, they crave to have it and they will come running whenever you are available.

If you give them less of your care, they will be interested in knowing what you are up to and by that, they will come running. Now, the reverse is what most of guys do that never seems to work out for them. If you want a woman to leave you, then start giving her all your time and all those caring and validations.

 It is high time you learn this as a guy, that you can never satisfy a woman’s needs no matter how caring you are. Train your mind to focus on your goals and not on women. Women should never be your point of focus because they always belong to the streets; you can never have possessions over them.

Today she is with you but tomorrow she is gone to someone else and there is nothing you can do about it. That is a reminder that you should never cancel your goals and your passion because you want to win over a woman.  You should be able to ask yourself, “What if tomorrow she leaves me for another man, what will I do?”

The reason why you should be able to ask yourself this question is because, your goals are very important since they help you plan for the future. Otherwise, cancelling them for a woman only makes you a loser in life. And that is the mistake that most guys do, giving their all to a woman. You should be organized with your time and work towards your passion.

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