It is time to let go of your friend if you note these in them
In life, everybody needs a friend to talk to and share ideas with making it sometimes difficult to find out that your friend is to leave maybe travel or such. Today, you should be in a better position to realize that everything in this world is not permanent not even your parents and same applies to friends. If a parent can leave you, what about your friend who you two are not so attached to each other the way you are attached to your parents? Well, accept it or not, we must say that there are sometimes when you just have to let your friend go out of your life if you expect a better future for your life.
Know this, that your success is in your hands but you cannot achieve it if you are still holding on things that do not do you any good, this includes that friend whose qualities we are about to discuss down below. We understand that there are some friendships that hope for the future, like you want to have your friend until eternity, that is not bad, what is bad is when you seem to be so desperate to have them.
You should always avoid looking desperate for friendship as this only makes the friends think that they are so special to you that afterwards making them misbehave or treat you bad because they know you need them, avoid it to the best of you. Since you are here, we assure you that this is the best place to be and that is why if you have not tapped the follow tab, it is the reason for you to do it and therefore, take only 1 second to do it, we can wait… Ready…go…having done it, think of this if this characters appear in the list of your friend’s qualities, then it is time to let them out of your life;
1. They keep their secrets from you
Yes, secrets are always to be kept though there are some friends who you trust too much to the extent of sharing everything you have in mind with them. Always be careful if you are too easy into trusting people, because not everybody is to be trusted, some will use your trust against you. In case your friends only listens to your secrets but never tells you theirs then it is a call on you that the friend is not worth keeping. He or she acts as if to never have any problems in life, what they do is only to listen to yours. As a warning, be careful with friends you roll with.
2. They look for you only when they need you
Friendship is always two way traffic where you look for him when he also finds time to look for you, otherwise, the friendship is never meant to be. There are some cases where one party does almost everything while the other party only folds hands and wait. What we mean is that, if it is texting, it is you; calling is also you to start, as he only waits for you to start everything up. In some even worse cases, you can realize that you start a conversation but it doesn’t proceed as expected simply the other person replies as if not interested or doesn’t show some signs of listening to you. Cut them off.
3. Your opinions never matter or is taken lightly
The happiness of everyone is to watch people take his or her opinion seriously and for sure he or she enjoys being around. There are such friends who just keep on giving opinions, are like you agreed that in the friendship, he will be the one to give opinions and therefore, yours is less needed. Avoid such friends because they do not see your worth, what they care about is only their happiness.
4. They do not fear losing you
A Friend indeed is always expected to want you around something that if happens otherwise becomes a headache to the affected. A friend should and is expected to feel sad when you are leaving, but to surprise you, some friends are never afraid of losing you instead they tend to wish that you left earlier. This simply means that your being around does not matter to them at all and that should be a question mark in your mind. Otherwise, it is a sign that you should cut them off your life.
5. They are not appreciating
Everybody wants to be appreciated even if what they do is worth less achievement, that small one deserves appreciation. Ever been around someone who takes things you do to him as it was a must that you do it to them, they do not appreciate it, instead, they tend to fetch for mistakes that you did in the process of trying to help them. It is also another lesson to teach that not everybody deserves your effort not even the trusted one unless they are appreciative to you. Appreciation is also a way of motivate someone if you never knew. You always feel nice if you are appreciated and tend to have a feeling of wanting to do more of it. Be on the look out to see this, always be with that friend who appreciates you and cut those who have no time to appreciate you.
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