Things you should avoid today if you want a bright future for your relationship
Getting into a relationship seems to be easier to everyone but maintaining it becomes a question mark, how? Well today we are again back to engage you into the topic on things that you are always doing while in a relationship that is risking you into an immature breakup. At the start of every relationship there are always beautiful goals that the two of you wish to achieve in your engagements, like, leading to a beautiful marriage and more. What always happen afterwards, neither you nor him or her can explain clearly, it all ends up with a blame game.
We do advise you to try and be attentive in order to have a different one from the many others who seems not to go long into their duration. What are those things that everybody does including you, that are risking relationships? That is why we are here today to let you know. If you might also have an idea on this topic, please feel free to also let us know by commenting down below, your opinion.
Therefore, here are 5 things that you do that makes you lose in every relationship you get into, it just does not work out for you. remember to tap the follow tab before reading this, to make you eligible for the new research studies we are about to perform in various parts of Africa. Also share and like;
1. Being too proud
Pride is a killer of every motive that people are always working for. Like, someone works hard for something then allover sudden, prides comes in due to little achievement you have made so far, its coming can never do you good, you motive is in danger for that. Same scenario goes into relationship, you can be proud to have someone in your life but you should be careful who you show your pride to. There is always a kind of a temptation where, because somebody is really into you also want to show the person how human you are by displaying your pride to him or her, something that instead of strengthening the relationship, it uproots the foundation thereby living you in the same state as either a spinster or a bachelor, think about it so well.
2. Avoiding his or her opinion
For a better relationship, opinions must be shared equally, like, everyone is expected to put across his or her thoughts concerning a matter that you are supposed to deal with or handle effectively. A problem comes when, an individual is always right according to him or herself and the other person’s opinion is always useless to him. You will find that, based on this, your opinion is never appreciated and putting it across is a waste of time that you should avoid. The next thing that comes to your mind when you realize that your opinion does not matter at all, is to look for an otherwise, which simply means, looking for another relationship to go into. Therefore, for those whose opinions are always right, it is better to reconsider the matter and make a good relationship.
3. Discussing the issues with friends
This is another thing that affects highly, relationships, it is the most temptation that those in a relationship always goes through and they fall into it without realizing that they are messing things up. We believe that a relationship is always guided and held strong by making sure that secretes remains secretes and none of it should be leaked another person’s ear. It is always a problem and challenge, when you think that things are going on as you expect them to be, you always feel like telling everybody and letting them know how you are faring. This is always the mistake that you should try by all means to avoid since it endangers your relationship without knowing, let secretes remain secretes as they are called.
4. Making yourself available for him or her
Have you ever realized that your brother or your sister, whom you see for the most part of the day, sometimes seems to be worthless to you? It is always because you get fond of him or her and do not feel like seeing him or her. Same scenario applies to a relationship, what happens is that, you are not supposed to be seeing each other for the most part of the day remember, an item is always better before you purchase it, after which its worth disappears from your eyes. Yes, you should be available for him when he or she needs you around but you should try to minimize it, otherwise, he will get used to you and you will be worthless.
5. Paying attention to rumors around about him or her
Rumors is again, something that can never be destroyed, it will still trend, some that you even do not know about. Now, that is reality and it is never affecting until you decide to pay attention to it, for sure, it will give you stress and headaches about the relationship. Some are always near to being the truth even without proofs. It is a problem if you begin to pay attention to rumors, and mark this; they are always spread by the friends therefore, it is better to avoid discussing the topic related to your relationship with your friends if you aim higher with your relationship.
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