Things or habits that you do that make people dislike you.
In life, everybody prefers being liked by others but we do get is always simply the opposite. There are things that people do individually that make others dislike them, they do this, thinking that they are doing it right while instead, the result is not as they expect. You see, in everything we do in a daily life in the presence of others, the main idea that always pushes you behind it is to have the people like you what you do. To avoid making the mistake without knowing it, today we as a team decided to look into it and that is why we are bringing to you this article.
Nowadays, working towards being liked by many has been the talk of the town and everybody wants to be liked by people. Have you ever realized why doing something that you think is right hoping to let the people like you, only turns out to be the source for them hating you? Well because of that question, we have worked on it and here are the things that you should have knowledge of that are simply making them dislike you instead. Maybe you can decide to work on it by training to avoid them as possible.
Here are 5 things that you do that are making people dislike you when you most expect them to like you. permit us to give you only 5 seconds for you to tap the follow tab,…1…2……5, having done that, receive our appreciation, also remember to Like, share then comment an additional opinion that we may have left out;
1. Talking about others in their absence
Normally, telling a story makes the better part of the conversation and the discussion grows longer if the story is kind of interesting. It is never a problem until you realize that what you are telling your story about tend to drive away people’s attention. The aim of everybody in telling a story is to ensure that people listen to you and what you say, it is always interesting to see that people are listening to you, something that if happens otherwise, becomes a boring situation. it is always good to tell stories that is interesting to others, but the problem most of the time is always to lack the topic of discussion, you can be tempted to find yourself talking about others. It makes people lose trust in you and therefore, they will dislike you afterwards.
2. Interrupting others when talking
As we said it earlier, everybody enjoys it when they are given enough time to say what they want to say up to the end. It is always kind of a boring situation to find yourself being interrupted when you have to say something. Now, come to think of it, if it were you, would you like it being interrupted when saying something? The answer will automatically be a complete NO. it is better to ask yourself how the other person feels when you interrupt them in their speech, they automatically will dislike you afterwards. Therefore, always find it easy within you to be patient while others talk and automatically you will be liked as you expect it to be.
3. Being too nice
This is another thing that makes people hate someone. The point is always clear right from childhood that you should always be nice to people around you. Being nice is not always is a good thing as we know, but what brings the problem here is to be too nice. People tend to hate those who are always too nice because they are thought to maybe hiding something in the dark. It is never advisable to be nice, only be nice to the ones who truly deserve seeing your nice nature; otherwise, you should always play natural around people since it also helps you gain respect.
4. Not returning what you borrowed
In life, you can never be complete in terms of materials you need to have, like, you will find that there are some things that you truly need at a point in life in order to be complete as you wish. Also, there are such times when such materials are so high worth for you, in short, you need them on demand. This is the point when you will tend to go and borrow from someone else maybe a friend. Again, borrowing is not a problem; the problem is failing to return it to the owner after you are done with it. It is always advisable to return it immediately you are done using it and if it is involving some cash, it is better if you give it back with an interest as soon as you can afford to give it back, otherwise, avoiding to return what you borrowed only makes someone dislike you.
5. Showing less interest in what someone is saying
This is another trap that leads to people disliking you. Have you ever interacted with those people who show less or no interest at all in what people say to them? How do you tend to relate to them? Do you like them? Maybe let us know in the comments below. Our assumption is that you find it hard to be around such people because they tend to lower the value of what you tell them even if it is much way important to you. it is always good to show some interest to a story even if it does not interest you, this makes them trust you and they are also able to confide secretes in you because they know you can listen to them. Avoid doing this, it will do you no good and instead, it is the starting point for them disliking you.
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