Signs of forcing things in a relationship that you should learn avoid

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Signs you are forcing things and therefore you need to let go and reset your mind to start afresh…

 Love is a beautiful thing created by GOD, he who finds a wife finds a good thing. This is love phrase right from Holy book, what it means is that love was created by God and therefore everybody has their mates somewhere in waiting, what you are therefore, expected to do is to look out for him or her. Now, this is where there is big problem, in order to find the right one, you must undergo through a series of heart breaks, stress and all that stuff. It is the reason behind many people ending up in a one sided relationship, one that is only in your mind but is not there in real life.

 That simply means that you are forcing things that are not meant to be. Therefore, if you note yourself affected in one way or another by these signs we are discussing here then, know that you are forcing the relationship, for it is not meant to be and therefore, you should rethink about it. You are therefore, expected to have decided to follow us, because we never disappoint. Tap the follow tab share, like and comment your opinions down in the comments section.

 Indeed you are forcing things if;

1.    You tend to overthink about them

 Whenever you realize that you are thinking about them, that is, he or she for the best of your day, then what it means is that things are not working out for you as you expect them to be. You are still trying to win over her simply things are not just working out. It is always difficult and painful to let go of someone you have deep feeling for. This should be a turn around for you, whenever you realize that you keep on thinking about them, then find a place in your heart to let them go because them being in your mind will just waste your time.

2.    You are the first one to start a conversation

 What makes every relationship a place to be, are the good stories you tell each other. A conversation marks the corner stone of every bonding people share; there is no relationship if you cannot communicate among yourselves. It is not a problem if both of you are willing to come up with a topic of discussion at any convenient time. A problem comes in, when you realize that you are the one to start it up always. If you see this, be sure to pack your things and leave, you won’t die there.

3.    You talk about them with your friends but they don't

 In real life, talking about who you care about with your friends is not bad; it shows the degree of love you offer. The big question is, does she also talk about you the way you do? You will always realize that, your friends know her but her friends seem to not know you; it simply means she does not talk about you. This means that you are the one who holds on to the relationship as she has nothing to do with it, a sign to know your worth and move no matter how hard it may be. Stop forcing things.

4.    They know your secrets but you don’t know theirs

  Another thing that holds the relationship is the trust you base on each other, do you trust each other? In most cases, you will realize that you are the one who is trusting while they seem not trust you. You will notice this when you realize that you are the one who is always confiding secrets in them while they don’t. They might look disturbed but their answer when ask them what the problem, will always remain to be, am just okay. It means that they don’t trust that you can help them. Note this down, find or know your worth and move on with your life.

5.    They are not interested with your whereabouts as you do

 It is always romantic kind of to ask your lover where he or she is and what they are doing; it means you are such a caring partner. A problem comes in when you are always the one asking this question as the other person only plays the role of an audience, they tend to have nothing to say or ask. If you finds out that always the one carrying this load, it is the time you take your rest because you are getting tired for nothing, he or she is not interested, in short, you are forcing things, let go and you will be fine.

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