signs you are not ready for a relationship

 

Signs that show you are not yet ready for a relationship that you need to know.

 

Everybody dreams of being in a relationship without realizing whether they are well prepared for it. Having the eager to have a partner does not just qualify you to be ready for the relationship. This is one of the reasons we have heartbreaks, people go into a relationship thinking just it is there to be or because you see others are enjoying it. You see, being in a relationship and being happy in the relationship are two different things that you need to differentiate before you finally agree within your that you want to engage yourself into it. Therefore there are signs that will automatically reveal to you that indeed you are not yet ready for the relationship; you are just doing it because you want to be like other people who you think are actually enjoying their time in it. Since we love you and we never like it when your time is wasted, our decided to venture into it and discover the signs that may reveal to you that you are not ready for the relationship and therefore we might prescribe you take some time and work on it before, you finally get to engage in one.

 Here are 5 signs that if you note in yourself then, you should work on yourself first before finally embarking on the journey to avoid heartbreak that might lead deterioration in your health condition. First of all, follow our articles to not only be updated on our daily ideas that come through but also to part of this big family. Permit us to give you only 5 seconds to hit the follow tab...1...2……having done that, here are signs that indeed you are not ready for the relationship you are dreaming of.

1.    You are not sure within yourself if you want the relationship.

 This is the most disturbing part in people who want to be in a relationship. They are always not sure if they really want the relationship or not. It is a situation where you only go in look for a partner to try things out because it seems like you are still not sure of if it is to work out or not. The problem comes when now you came to try things but now the bond has become too tight for you to survive in because you were not well prepared for it, you end up now pulling away ending up heartbreaking the other party, the most difficult wound to heal in a relationship. As an advice, always be sure of it before you finally involve someone in it and avoid doing trial and error kind of a thing.

2.    You still value compliments on social media.

 Issues to do with social media have become so popular in a way that nowadays everybody has an account or two on the media platforms. It is interesting if you have followers for those accounts since it some kind of makes you feel like a hero of your own. We do not say that you should therefore quit social media, but this is what you should do as a preparation for being in a relationship, minimize the time you create aside for swiping on social media. The problem with social is that it is so engaging that if you are not careful, you even lack the time for intra-personal dialogue where you get to discuss with your own self. If you cannot create time for yourself to figure things out, then it is less probable that you will create time for your relationship.

3.    You take corrections to be insults

 Maturity is when you understand when you are corrected that indeed the thing is wrong and therefore it for real deserves correction. Some individuals find it hard to just accept it that they are wrong, in their mentality; such people are always right and should never be corrected by any means. It is even so bad that they would also want to direct and dictate you in your ways. For you to be ready for a relationship, you must be ready to accept correction and view or observe actions from different angles. It is also called etiquette in yourself. This also encourages and improves confidence within yourself something that serves as the pillar in every kind of a relationship you want to engage in. therefore, train yourself to accept corrections and improve on yourself before you decide to involve yourself in any relationship to minimize fights and all those disagreements.

4.    You roll with many friends.

 

This is another area where many people have come to forget themselves in. People like being a celebrity and be known to many people may be in an area at large. What they seem to not know is that, a relationship has nothing to do with being a celebrity or any kind of being popular, it is just supposed to be you and your partner, that’s it, no more no less. Someone who is still not yet ready for a relationship always rolls out with many friends and finds it hard to find time to just be with his or her partner, it becomes a fight if you try to advise him or her to leave the friends. We might sound awkward by saying you minimize your friends since we also depend on you following us on Social media platforms, but at list have a limited number of friends who can at some point leave you alone to figure out your life.

5.    You like show offs and bragging is your hobby.

 Haha, how about this, it sounds some sort of interesting but it is to be taken serious from our point of view in that a relationship is not so when you decide to brag about your abilities and such, it needs understanding from different perspectives, you should understand that you, yourself is not perfect. Most people go into a relationship just to show off their ability to have a partner, something that later grows into heartbreaks when the bond tightens up that you cannot survive anymore, you were not prepared for it to grow into that level. In conclusion of the article, it is better to be well prepared before you decide to be in a relationship with someone you might crush for.

As the norm here, remember to live a comment on what you think about people who go into a relationship well prepared but still end up heartbroken?  What is always the cause of this?

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