Signs she is not interested and therefore you should avoid bothering her
The first step into a relationship is having a crush on someone regardless of gender, you might crush on a lady or on a man, and all are the foundations in starting a relationship. The second step is always supposed to be approach, where you are expected to make your first move. Mostly, because ladies are always known to be shy, they find it hard to make this move; they leave live it for the men to handle.
Now, the today’s topic has got to do with this, when exactly should you realize that it is time to stop bothering her because she is not interested? There has always been a confusion here, we understand that ladies always expect to be chased, like, you need to chase her until she says Yes. Today we decided to look into this topic and let you know the signs that show, you are wasting your time, therefore you should also pull away.
Ladies are always good in playing pull away games; they sometimes refuse to understand that men are also humans and can get tired at a point. Well, as a man, you should push and push but when you note these signs, then you need put a break on it and move on, do not waste it any longer let her realize that you have also other things to do.
Here are 5 signs that if you happen to note in her then, it automatically says, you should STOP IT RIGHT AWAY. If you haven’t followed us yet, it is time to do so, tap the follow tab right away, like, share and comment;
1. She is not into impressing you
This has been a good indication that a lady is also into you and you should be motivated to not give when you realize that whatever she does is with an aim of impressing you, let’s say, she dresses to look fine for you and all those stuff. Now, today should be the day you realize this that, a lady cares so much of your compliments about her appearance only if, she is aiming at something that will make the two of you come together and that is LOVE. She is always at the top to hear what you are going to say based on her appearance. Now, you should know that it is time to stop when you realize that, your compliment no longer matters to her, it is normal to her whether you compliment or not. Stop it, you are wasting your time, move on.
2. She has not time for you
Time is always a precious thing to have in a relationship, having sometime just for a discussion when you two can share ideas on your future or your improvements, things of sort. This is for a relationship that is already on the move, it is good to notice that, a girl who admires to be with you will always find time to hear you out even if some may act as if not interested. She is not interested in it when you realize that she is always busy with her things even she was initially not busy, she will act in a way to show you that she has something to do just to ensure you don’t talk to her. Stop it when you realize this in her.
3. She does not talk about you
It is always nice to know that her friends know about you even some who you never interact with personally, it is an indication that at some point, she talks to them about you, this shows that she has interest in you even though she might act not interested in you, but when you realize this, you should know that it is a way to let you know that you should not attempt to give up. This alone shows that, she is not interested in you whenever you realize that her friends do not know you, it means you do not exist in her life and it is an indication to tell you that it is the time you need to stop it and start concentrating on someone else and if you truly love her, it is time to pull away and watch her come to you by herself.
4. Do not call or text you
Nowadays, communication has been made easy through the use of mobile phones. It is also a way to let you know if indeed she is also interested in what you might tell her. in a relationship, it is boring when you realize that a conversation despite being lighted by one person always who is you, it still does not go through as expected, it stops due to less interested in the other person who does not want to talk to you. Sometimes you might text her, but the reply delays as if she was not around while sometimes you do not get replies at all. Know this, you are not a slave to always be the first person to talk always, she also has phone and also you also have to realize that you also has got a life to live.
5. She is not committed
Another thing that kills someone’s motivation is failure to be committed; you are not just into what you say, in short, you just say things for the sake of the conversation. Now, how do you expect the other person to feel, or do you think he is not supposed to have what he was promised, fulfilled? Whenever you realize that a lady you are fighting for, do not show sense of being committed, whatever you two agrees on remains to be a story, it is a sign of her not being interested in it and therefore, it is an indication that you should forget about it and move on.
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