Reasons why people stay singe up to late 20's and still get no partner
Reasons why you are still single and almost 30’s that you should work on immediately.
Everybody dreams of being in a relationship but only a few of them actually finds themselves in one or two. This sometimes gives the bible phrase that says God’s time is the best a doubt. Well, it can sometimes be challenging to say that you are waiting for God’s time when for real, you are growing older and still have no Girlfriend or Boyfriend.
A relationship may seem to be hard and talking about may be so hard when you are not in one. Again, those who find themselves in one seem to complain that they prefer being single to being engaged in a relationship. It is by nature that people will always complain no matter what. Most of the youths nowadays seem to prefer single lifestyle to being engaged in a relationship and that is why our team had to put interest into it and no why.
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Here are 5 reasons why someone might be single and the age is questioning;
1. Minimized public exposure.
It is always advisable to just take your time to stroll around maybe in town or at the village center, just take a peaceful walk. It is prescribed that doing that will allow you to meet new faces that you can interact with as a part of your lifestyle. The problem with most people is that they seem not to be interested in meeting new people; instead, they would rather prefer staying indoors than wasting their time wandering around. We can advise to swallow your pride and ego to just find it easy to meet to interact with new people on a daily basis since this is one among the reasons why some people end up being single or even getting married at a very old age than expected of them. You see, immediately you hit 26 or 27, it is time you start asking yourself the plans you have for a family, meaning, you should have a soul somewhere whom you are planning to start a family with, if not then start searching as soon as possible.
2. Acting too mature to handle a partner
Here is another blow to the mind, it is always good to act mature as maturity level also matters in a relationship, and it is one of the pillars holding the relationship together. Now people may remain single not because they are immature, of cause there are some who are just immature in their behavior, but it is ironical to act immature when the age is demanding high of you. The mature people remain single because they seem to be too mature to handle their partner, meaning, they exaggerate the fact of being mature. Such people will always act as dictators in your life, if God forbid, they become your partner or soul-mates if you can say so. Nobody is ready is just ready to be dictated in everything he or she does in life, people wants to drive their own lives in their own ways. Therefore, if you want to be in a relationship, try reducing your maturity to the level of your partner’s in-order to also understand him or her.
3. Inability to settle for one
It is honorable to have one person who is well known to be yours, people respect that. Now this is another issue behind people ending up being single for their lives. The problem with youth-hood is that you seem to be so free to try everything something that is affecting most relationships. It becomes difficult to later decide to settle with one person if moving around form one to another has become officially your habit. Realizing that you cannot just settle finding one who will be with you in hardships and happiness as they say during wedding automatically becomes not your thing, you end up being single just like the rest. As advice to you, try working on it before it becomes very late for you to handle.
4. You are so cute
Haha, you never thought we could say this right. Everybody admires to be cute in the eyes of many since it comes with some respect that many people die for. They said that everything with an advantage must also have its dark side, and the dark side of being cute is that, everybody presumes you are a player and can cheat whenever you feel like. What people never accept to come easy is handling heartbreak. Therefore, because of that fear of being heartbroken people tend to avoid you by all means and even the one you have creates trust issues in them that in the end you are just left alone to survive as a loner. The advice in this is that, you should try to not allow someone to misunderstand you, stick to your lanes and build respect.
5. You are too selfish to care for another person
For a relationship to be so strong and long lasting, you too must be able to share your belongings, like that is why it is normally said that, what is mine is yours in a relationship. Though being selfish is a behavior than can be corrected easily when the one correcting you is your lover, some people just find it hard to let the character go of them. These are the people whose things cannot just be touched no matter who you are to them; they grow wild that you become afraid to even talk to them. Now, how easy is it for you to cope with somebody who you cannot just match with respect to sharing ideas, it is so tough. Know this, that if you cannot change your behavior, then be guaranteed you are going to be single for long. Train yourself out of it, learn to share what you have with others and you will be on a safer side.
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