Mtaachana tu' Phrases you need to avoid by now if you want a bright future.

 

Phrases that you should avoid using if you expect to succeed in life

Normally, in the day to day lives, people tend to rely on some phrases including words that decorate our communication skills to make our discussion and pull ups not boring. It has been made natural that if you do not include any of the phrases that we are to explain to you today through this article, it seems to mean that you are outdated in a way that you are not well informed. The problem that is so affecting our society today is the fact that the youths have taken the bull by the horns on issues to do with communication and words to use, they have taken advantage of the fact that the census reveal about their number being higher than the number of the well experienced adults that they are supposed to call fathers. The ability to use these phrases steps you into being a well-informed youth and you are regarded as the real youth of the city.

Now here are 5 phrases that people use mostly that you should stop as an individual in order to change your way from following the majority and focusing your mind on success. Talking of following, remember to follow us, for more articles coming to you on a daily basis that you should not miss by any means. Share it with friends to ensure they know about it. Comment what you feel about the article. Together we will change the nation;

1.     ‘Mtaachana tu’

This is a Kiswahili phrase that most youths use to discourage those in a relationship. In translation, it changes to, “you will just divorce with time”. It is used by others against their friends who are in a relationship to let them know that they are not the first people to be in love, many people have been on that shoe but the results were not successful. When you say this to your friends, be careful, you might be ruining your relationship in the future that you will eventually fall into. It interprets this about you, that due to the results you came with from your last relationship, you are not ready to fall into another one, since you are afraid that the results might just be the same. Then it is time to stop it, feel good to encourage your friends and let them enjoy their time.

2.     ‘God has forgotten about me.’

This is another phrase that is always on the lips of most youths, it is always easy for someone to narrate this phrase out whenever you feel like things have decided not go your way. God is the creator of everything, living and non-living surviving on the earth’s surface. There is not even a single day He will let you go alone, he is always by your side to ensure you get what you deserve on the phase of the earth. Sometimes it can be so tough and the life as a youth may deal with you as if you are cursed, it is normal just know this that you are not the only person surviving with difficulties, there are some people who are struggle more than you do. It is time to avoid with all the means and ensure this phrase never come out of your mouth, direct your mind to focus.

3.     ‘You will need me later’

This is common with the ones in a relationship that are to break u mostly the reason being issues to do with lack of trust from one another. It is not good for a man to throw back words at his girlfriend when things get worse with them in a relationship. They are always expected to solve issues maturely. Whenever you begin quarreling with your woman word for word as a man, you are belittling yourself without knowing it thinking that you are making her respect you. Know this, respect is no gained by shouting upon others, it is the issue to do with calmness and learning to solve issues in a mature way. When a lady wants to take her path, let her be, stop acting as if you are so much worthy for her to have you. Do not say this phrase, let her come if she feels like since saying this may make you lose her for good and now think of it if you still love her.

4.     ‘My brother spoil yourself, life is short’

Talking of spoiling yourself this has got majorly to do with entertainment programs, it is a phrase used against the holy-Joes of today youth-hood.  Those who have friends, who are more into entertainments, are the victims of this phrase. A friend finds it uncomfortable to be raving without his or her friend; it comes with a kinda thinking that he or she is the most lost, that is, the bad king or queen, something that nobody ever waits to fall into. We mean, people tend to like it when they do something, let’s say raving, as a group not by themselves. When they notice that raving and all those stuffs are not your thing, they bomb you with this phrase to help you change your way of thinking. If you are the list of such a friend who sways the other into performing something they are not into, then you need to stop because you are destroying your future too.

5.     ‘Haki wewe ni fala sana’

Another Swahili phrase mostly found among age mates trying to enjoy their laughter. Do you know what it translates into in English? It changes to, “you are very stupid”. Many youths say this with an aim to pardon their friend to let them know that their joke is killing him or her, without realizing that you are insulting the other party who is the joke owner. The question is, why have to insult someone when the joke is sweet in the name of enjoying the conversation. Avoid this and work towards improving your conversation skills needed for better etiquette.

Having said all these, we would advise you to try and distant yourself with such phrases to be on the right side to be able to focus on your future. We now request you to do as a simple favor:

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