Ways to avoid being childish, Girlish or Boyish in the faces of others
Hello there, have you been described as to have boyish or girlish characters? How irritating was it? We can guess it is always a painful kind of a compliment to listen to. It demoralizes someone and even your personality might be affected if you are not careful with your reaction. Since our main idea is to get you covered for all the articles we release on a daily basis, today we decided to focus on ways you need to adjust yourself to avoid looking either Childish, boyish or girlish. We are glad to assure that after reading this, you will be in a position to shun away from being in that list
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Here are 5 ways you need to execute in order to stop being affected by either of the three, if you have any question or any adjustment, you may also let us know through the comments section;
1. Go straight to the point.
This is one of the reasons why someone might decide to rate you low if you keep on hovering around the bush instead of hitting straight the nail on the head. You see, for to earn enough respect that you deserve, you must be in a position to be courageous enough to always saying what is it that you have to say. Again, you have to show that you indeed value other person’s time, understand that they have a very engaged program that maybe you were not part of. Therefore, if indeed you are mature enough to be respected; it is high time you understood this. If you an issue to put across, then go straight to the point if it is a serious one, otherwise, you will be childish.
2. Call for a discussion only when necessary.
Here is another area that needs improvements, people tend to call for an attention then end up saying nothing productive to the other person. This is why most people end up being childish; they seem to just waste your time in the name of saying something important to you. Have you ever been assumed by someone as if you are not talking to them? Well the answer is this; you seem to call for their attention without preparing well what you have to say to them. Avoid calling for discussions when you are not necessarily ready for it. Another thing, avoid inserting jokes into a discussion that requires serious thoughts.
3. Be accompanied by your confidence.
One the popular reasons to look childish is to lack confidence in front of people, let’s say you are on a date with someone, then allover sudden, confidence disappears, you immediately lack expression words, then end up being a boring one. You see, it is only easy to lack confidence when your experience is also to be questioned. This proves that if you don’t be confidence enough, then it is very easy for someone to think of you as a child, displaying that you have more to work on. Our conclusion in this demands that you practice your confidence and let it be part of you always to avoid looking low in the face of people you respect or admire the most.
4. Talk about real promises
Life sometimes has to be backed with promises that keeps us moving and working hard as we ought to be. Well, talking of promises, everybody knows what it means to promise someone something. This is another area where improvements are to be made as soon as it is realized to affect someone. People give promises that are not real; meaning that, they give promises that even themselves cannot believe that they are saying it. Promises like, buying something for someone needs you to be well sure of the money that is to be spent on it, Do you enough cash to fulfill it? If not then, why promise someone.
Immediately, he or she realizes that you do give fake promises; they will hate you with passion and they can call you all the names they like of you. Avoid this, to be on a better side when it comes to gaining respect from others. Talk of gaining respect, stay waiting by following us since we are producing an article on that.
5. Give reasonable ideas
In life, comes a situation when serious ideas are required for a condition to be solved. Many people do not realize it and differentiate between when to give serious and when to take seriousness lightly. You are supposed and expected to be reasonable in your thoughts and know when concrete ideas are needed, do not just give ideas for the sake of it. Doing this earns you more respect than imagine and also makes you look very mature in the face of others. You are regarded to be childish the moment somebody realizes that you cannot give helpful ideas that can help build someone’s life in one way or another.
Up to this point, allow us to conclude by saying that nobody is always ready to carry the cross of being childish, boyish or even girlish not even you, everybody wants to look mature in front of others. Execute what you have learnt from article and be guaranteed forever maturity. We do appreciate that you read our articles that’s why we also offer bonuses through our videos. If not yet followed us still, please do so. To view our videos;
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