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10 signs you might be an introvert without realizing it;

1. You are poor at forming new friends.,

With regard to forming new friends, many people find it easy when it comes to forming new friends unlike others who are introverts, who instead of forming and interacting with new people, they rather prefer staying alone. You know you are an introvert when the ones you call friends are the ones who are so close to you, that is, like family members or so. It is always stressful for an introvert to get out in the street and feel free to interact with new people; this might be the reason behind people confusing them to be shy. A shy person may also not find it difficult to start a friendship with a stranger since they lack the courage to do so, what makes them different with being an introvert is that, forming new friends for shy people takes time but finally in the end, they find themselves inside friendship but after it has taken sometime, for introverted individuals, it is not just worth to form new friends. Take note of the difference to be on the lime light side to avoid confusion.,

2. You lack conversation starter skills.,

Usually, starting a conversation for the extroverts seems to be a piece of sweet to chew. It is a technique that holds the pillar of a conversation until its successful ending. The way you do start a conversation determines whether the discussion is going to be longer or just a piece of a t-shirt to put on at once. The starter skills are the core that differentiates the introverts from the extrovert being that, for the introverts, it seems to be so stressful standing to be the reason behind them ending up to be silent during a conversation while for the extroverts, this issue becomes an easy go for them. Therefore to know if you are an introvert, take a look into this, maybe ask yourself how easy you always find it in starting a conversation, is it some kind of hard to do? Or is it so easy for you to do. Answering this question will automatically categorize into the category you belong.,

 3. Small talk is not your thing.,

Generally, it might be assumed that you are so boring if you are not active in speaking, something that can be so discouraging to the introverts who are trying to hide their personality from the faces of others, actually because they also do not know they are introverts. Speaking too much is considered to be entertaining among friends even if sometimes you lack meaning in whatever you might say, it is all accepted. The true introverts never find it entertaining to say something they know is of no help to them, they prefer hitting the nail on the head. This point might as well mean to some of us that this group of people try so hard to avoid hovering around the bush because they do lack the words that can be so explanatory and comprehensive.,

4. You like meditation.,

The term meditation means to have that peaceful time to settle issues that may be disturbing you in your mind just by yourself. Most introverts prefer time alone as they use this time to meditate and refresh their minds, something that the extroverts find no time for. You see, it is always advisable to find some time just by yourself and think into your life, you will realize that this group of people like this time just alone as it helps them to deal with stress levels. If you never knew this then know that, it is high time you start your meditation schedule on purpose to help improve your inner being. This a general lesson, people need to be taught somewhere if you are an extrovert but for the introverts, this time is believed to automatically be available for them as they normally find it easy to create time for their self and stay by their minds thinking and reasoning things out.,

5. You come up with great decisions.,

After thinking by yourself for some time, introverts are always believed to come up with amazing ideas that are helpful and for this, the other group of people we say are extroverts, do come to them for advices on issues to do with their lives. Therefore, if people do come to you for advices because they believe you are great at it, then friend, you are an introvert. The fact is that, the introverts do analyze issues carefully by themselves before they finally come to the end of making decisions on the matter. In life, there are issues that rise up now and then and as a person, you are expected to handle them and post a reasonable decision that will keep you going for the life to be fruitful. Most of the time, the extroverts fail in this since they do rush into making decisions that in turn becomes not worthwhile and can be discouraging at some point in life. The introverts do take their time into the issue before finally posting a deserving decision to it.,

 6. You go to parties not to meet new people.,

For life to be fully complete, a normal person at some point needs some time for entertainment, it is always a chance to meet new people and maybe start a relationship from that point if possible. Now this is another move that separates the introverts from the majority in that they though they also go to parties, the main aim for them is normally not to go to the party to meet new people since as we had said earlier they are poor at forming new friends, they do go for the parties strictly for the purpose of entertainment and it will surprise you that after all those enjoyments, they are still comfortable going back to their respective homes just by themselves as they came, they normally need no company of others. These people believe strongly in themselves and they are more secure on their own than when they are in the company of others. As a conclusion in this, they are the kinds of people who are depended on by the others for their secret reasons because of their confidence in themselves.,

 7. You easily concentrate on something.,

To be able to concentrate on something whose results may be of great importance to you is always appreciated in the society the reason being that, your concentration on something determines how the outcome looks like, if you want a great outcome out of it, then you must invest your concentration into it plus your energy. For the majority, concentrating on something becomes a challenge since the mind is always easily carried away by other distractions thereby making the outcome not worthwhile as they expect it to be. This is a no issue to the introverts as what normally lets them down is time for completion, have you ever noticed that time flies whenever you decide to concentrate on something without encouraging any forms of distraction? It is mostly experienced by the introverts as, they always concentrate on something with all their minds into it, that is the reason behind them having high probability of attaining quite great outcomes from whatever they decide to concentrate on.,

 8. You rather write your idea than speak.,

Speaking something out of your mind is normally defined to create more awareness as it is always alarming and can be understood quickly. As we said earlier, introverts are good at coming up with good ideas than the majority of people who just come up with ideas for the sake of it most of the time, it is normally not a problem for them, the problem comes on how to create awareness concerning their idea, that is, the means they can use to deliver this to their intended audients, it is a hard nut to crack for them. It brings them back to reasoning thereby creating stress, in the end since the idea must be delivered, they do end up writing it down instead of saying it out. It is obviously so hard for them to speak it out since they fear it that the manner by which the audient will perceive their words, will not be as they expect them to. You are an introvert when speaking is less worth to you than writing something.,

9. Addressing large crowd is less stressful.,

Normally, addressing large group of people needs some confidence that if you cannot contain, you end up messing it up. To the introverts, issues to do with confidence are never a problem since they do believe in themselves and they know whatever they can and cannot do. You find that they are good at addressing large crowds but if it comes to interacting personally with the audients one by one, it becomes stressful. You know you are an introvert if this affects you, interacting with people one by one becomes stressful in a manner like you start wondering about the topic you can speak with these people, it is not just easy. Again, it is not that they are shy or so, the personality do not just allow you to do so, it is your nature, no matter how people who are always at the top of making conclusion will conclude about you, it just does not matter to you as most of the time you are comfortable by it.,

10. You mean what you say.,

This affect the majority of people since it is always easy for someone to do not take you seriously as per what you might say to them. It is even worse that most people tend to not stick to what they say; they easily get swayed away with the ideas of others who do not care to know why you say it to them. Again, it is normal, what makes you different from the majority is how able you are to stand by your say, are you really into why you are saying it or you just doing it to test your audients with it. It is going to be worse with you if in case you are an extrovert who is always assumed to be joking most of the time through their stories they tend to tell most of the time. You see, it is hard for someone to now realize that what you say is something to be taken into consideration. For introverts, the fact that they only speak when it is necessary, makes their audients to take their issue not lightly and also they always know the reason they say it not just for the sake of speaking.,