Never do this to your woman, if you don't want to look desperate.
1. Always cooking for her,
It is always romantic kind of to cook for your woman at some point but, it is associated with limits that if in case exceeds, then, you mind be failing your authority as a man. At some point you have to prove to her that despite you cooking for her, you are still the head of that house and you deserve your respect to the maximum. Avoid it once and see the results, the problem with ladies is that, whenever she sees you performing some of the house chores that to you, you are trying to show your romance nature to her, she tends to think, you are too desperate to handle her. And by the time you realize that you have been messing up, she will be on her way to her new man of her choice. Cooking for her is romantic but train yourself to not overdo it, let her do it by herself as that is among the qualities that make her your wife.,
2. Always forgiving her
Forgiving people is always a virtue that you are supposed to have as a man but when it comes to issues on a relationship, forgive but remember not all mistakes are forgiven. As a man, it is always to forgive but you should not always be sorry as this, only makes you less worth it. There are some mistakes that can be forgiven once, twice but not thrice as it marks the maximum for forgiving level, if you forgive the third time then, she begins to now rate you differently in a manner that it becomes painful when you realize that she is taking you for a desperate person. Nothing hurts men most like if a woman starts doing mistakes on purpose as she knows that you will always forgive even if she does it 10 times or more. The advice associated with this is that, if you want a decent relationship with your woman, then you should stick to your lanes when it comes to whether to forgive or not.,
3. Always respecting her decisions,
In a relationship, decisions are always meant to boost the relationship to further level that you mind describes as the point of no breaking, that is, if the ones you make are right. The huge problem comes when you as a man decide to rely on her decisions. You see, the reasons why men are regarded as the head of the house is to ensure that whatever the decision you make, should be the right and not, by any means should it mislead the relationship of the two of you. We do not say that you should avoid listening to their decisions but, remember this, that she will start bragging how more important she is to you and the worst of it is that, she starts thinking that you cannot make decisions without her something that will automatically groom her into bossy. Sometimes men do think that, since the bond involves the two of you, you should share ideas, but some of them tend to confuse this with decisions, ending up respecting women’s decisions more than their own.,
4. Always letting her be
The act of giving somebody the freedom he or she might be requesting for makes you better off not a dictator. It is a problem when it comes to issues involving two parties in a relationship, in this; it is always advisable to be in charge of what goes on in your house and that is where responsibility gets in to your authority as a man. Being romantic does not mean that you give her all the freedom she is requesting for, at some point you need to question some actions and demand for their answers as they should be. Like, not every time she request to go out, you should give her the permission simply because you love her. She will request the permission two or thrice the most, the fourth time she will be doing it without bothering your permission and the mistake you will make that will make you fail as a man is to let her be. It is time to take the bull by its horns and question the reasons for her getting out, let her realize that she has no authority to do things by herself.,
5. Washing clothes for her,
The cleaner the clothes the two of you tend to put on every day, the healthier your relationship looks or appears from outside. It does not mean that if she cannot wash them, then you should do it for her at all time. We understand washing for her clothes is another form of you showing romance to her, but you should always be careful with your actions of showing romance that you might think of. Wash clothes only when your effort in it is highly demanded for, let say, if she is sick or so, may be in her late periods of her pregnancy, at that point we also understand that you obviously don’t expect her to do it with respect to her condition, but don’t let your action in washing the clothes seem normal to her, she will then auto rate you as being desperate for her and that you can anything for her. Always try not to accept her think so about you through your loving actions.,
6. Always giving her money when she needs it,
This can be so tempting most so to the relations that is still trying to find its roots or foundation. At this age of a relationship, men tend to avoid saying “NO!” to whatever you might request for even if he is not in a position to be able to commit himself to whatever the answer he might give you in response. This is the age in which men always seem to be committed more than even they finally find themselves inside marriage with you. With all that said about men weakness, now it is time to venture into our topic. You see, ladies are always tempting, they seem to ask you something to only see how you will respond to it, and the answer never matters to them, whether it is negative or positive. Most men never realize this, they always give in, to what the women tend to request for with romance in the back of their minds. As an advice to this, try it, at one point just say No and wait for whatever will happen, the promise is that, she will begin to respect you.,
7. Always making yourself available for her,
As a man who is in the world of the relationship, it is good to be available for your woman when she need you around, but it is time you realize that familiarity is always a threat to the relationship, as in, you always get fond of seeing someone for almost the highest duration in a day, and so applies to women, whenever she realize, that you are always available, when she needs, she begins to take your presence for granted and through this, she begins to rate you as being desperate and that is the reason you are always there. It is advisable to let her feel the loneliness when she is not around you, let her miss you at some point. Remember, as a normal human being, you always need some time off to settle issues within your mind, you need time alone. If you want a peaceful relationship, then hide your availability from her at some point and you will win eventually.,
8. Always looking out for her,
Ever found yourself in a position when you think as a man, you must have your woman around you, this is always the worst state of mind that, it is where you automatically begins to call her, let’s say if she is somewhere far from you, after every duration of time. The state of loving someone to the most comes with such challenges like this one where you always seem to find yourself not surviving without her. Since we got it and worked on it thoroughly, here is a way to ensure you do not get affected by depression that may not be better for your mental condition. Train yourself to be self-independent and love yourself, find something to do to keep you busy when she is not around you, let her think you can actually survive without her, unless she is the one to call you first, distant yourself from repeatedly calling her on phone.,
9. Always looking satisfied with whatever she says,
The fact that the two of you are grownups, always play your authority as a man. Yes, at some point she might be right but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid putting your thinking into what she might say. You should exercise your thinking ability in the relationship before you can ask for her opinion. We found that it is always tempting where you find that most men seem to trust their women more than they do trust their own thinking and that’s why they always seem to react positively to whatever the ladies seem to say. It is worse that, when you decide to listen to your woman, instead of her, respecting the fact, she tends to use it against you and that may be reason for her thinking and rating you as a desperate man who cannot trust his own thoughts, so always be careful when you decide to listen to her and become satisfied with whatever she says. It also destroys your personality.,
10. Speaking to your friends about her,
This is the worst mistake ever done by men in a relationship and it is the root cause for you being desperate because psychology says it that, the more you talk about an individual with your friend, the more you fall in love with that individual, and once you are deeply in love, it becomes difficult for you to say No which, in the end, you find yourself in all these mistakes we have stated because after talking about her with your friends it becomes painful and devastating when you realize that she will leave you when you fail her, you tend to ask yourself, what the friends will now take you for. A point where now you decide to fall into her trap of doing whatever you think is right for her because you don’t want her to leave. The advice in this, if you want a peaceful mind in a relationship, avoid involving your friends in it.
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