Better ideas to think about that improves your etiquette.

BETTER IDEAS TO THINK ABOUT THAT IMPROVES YOUR ETIQUETTE…

    The English teachers we had back in the school days taught us about this thing they described as ‘having etiquette’ and how it should improve our relationship between each other in the society. And what do you think it actually mean in real life, or have you used it before, how did it help you? May be those questions have positive answers but to many, I guess, it needs much explanation and that’s one of the reasons I wrote this article. Therefore, to start with, the term etiquette simply means the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group. Hence having etiquette means having the customary code of polite behavior in the society.

   Now this should guide our relationship with friends, brothers, sisters, etc. since no one amongest us is ready for embarrassments in the midst and site of others. So what are these things that improve our etiquette in the society today? I am going to list with descriptions and short paragraph for further explanation. They include;

1.     Learn when to say SORRY

   This is the most important part of our day to day conversations, but it’s a surprise that almost 96% of us never use it. By saying this, of course I don’t mean that you should always be sorry during a conversation, but at list learn when to use it and why, don’t just avoid it completely. Avoiding it also paints your character and someone completely and automatically understands you in another version.

  Saying sorry does not take you down just for using it, in fact it portrays in a polite nature, something that everyone always dreams of.

2.     Always speak your truth and stand firmly with it

   This is another factor that always weighs people down without even knowing. A lot of people speak lies and statistics says that 99% of mankind has told lies in one way or another. So when I speak of this, do not exclude yourself because it’s something natural and normal and affects every healthy piece of mind. Speaking of etiquette, try to limit your lies that you tell people and know this, that speaking the truth gives you a title that most cannot afford to have.

   People with this title are less in the society today. I would request you to at list speak your truth and earn the title to be one of those who are recognized with the titles. Remember, speaking costs you nothing other than your courage, so gather courage, speak the truth, win your title and live a peaceful life that is the pattern. Another thing is to stand by your truth, remember, truths are unchangeable but you can only change it when you are not courageous enough. How easy it is for you to stand by your truth determines your level of etiquette

3.     Minimize your talking and maximize your actions

   This is the factor that affects people, mostly the male category. This happens in a way that you have so many promises but none of them are ready to be fulfilled. This is more popular in a number of guys, and the problem with such kind of people is that they mostly never accept corrections and if you try correcting, he can easily engage you in a fight. The main problem is that, for a community to be complete, you cannot miss such group of residents.

   Speaking of respect, you find that these kinds of people gain less respect from members in the society since no one is ready to associate with someone who cannot follow up to his words, in shot they are regarded as liars because they speak of things they are not sure about. Finding yourself in such a category of people becomes tricky since rates you as having low etiquette so dealing with it will automatically raise it up, try it.

4.     Work on your self-dependence

   Depending on yourself helps improve the way people look at you, unlike having to depend others for your day to day survival, they tend to see you as hopeless beggar, it is always a worse situation to find yourself in as your freedom is also minimized especially the freedom of speech where you find that there are some words that you are limited to say because you think may be the support may withdrawn from you and you will end up suffering something that you do not dream of. This is also another situation that is so miserable to find yourself surviving in.

   Speaking of respect, the respect you gain from these people is less since they have a feeling that whatever they do to you, you will still need them. To echo on etiquette, your behaviors are always disgusting in the view of such kind of individuals. I wish it was in my power to advise you to just be yourself and all these troubles will be gone within less duration of time.

5.     Do not announce your problems

   Is there really life without problems on this planet we call earth that we tend to stay on and survive on? I guess no, there is no such kinds of life on earth may be let’s wait for that which awaits us in heaven. That is to simply say that everybody undergoes through hardships in this life but most of them do not go place to place announcing to other people for help so I wonder where you get the courage to announce your problems from. Learn to handle your problems by yourself to avoid being disrespected from the society.

6.     Keep secret your goals

   This will mark the end our list today, may be you can feel free to add more in the comment tab below that you know of that I did not mention. Speaking of goals, I understand that the term ‘creating your goal’ is all over the articles you ever red concerning success. So I am not going to state deeply into that but just to let you know that, by the moment you speak about your goal, it is clear that you are less likely to succeed in it because you will lose focus afterwards